Monday, December 19, 2011

Keeping Giving Simple

In my opinion, giving does more for the giver than for the recipient.  As they say in a popular local version of "The Gospel According to Scrooge",  a present is not about the gift, but the giving.

I don't want to lose sight of the fact that giving comes in so many different forms.  A tangible gift is such a blessing most of the time, but there are times when someone simply needs an ear, a hand, or an encouraging word.  Here are some ideas I thought I might challenge you with.  Pick one and choose to do it during this holiday season to give a gift that can never be labeled with a price tag. And my hope for you is that you receive the joy of giving in response to your gracious act.

  1. Call or text a random friend to tell them something you think is spectacular about them.  
  2. Send a letter in the mail to someone you know spends a lot of time alone.
  3. Help your neighbor decorate, carry in groceries, or trim their lawn.
  4. Take a walk and give a genuine smile to every person you pass.
  5. Invite someone over for hot coco and a holiday movie when you know they're down.
  6. Accept the offer of the bagger to help you to your car, and ask them about their life.
  7. Send an e-mail to a friend who is struggling with a big decision to encourage them.
  8. Hug an elderly person at church (gently!).
  9. Give a high-five to a little kid who looks sad and tell them how awesome they are.
  10. Offer to pick up or take home a co-worker who lives nearby when they're having car trouble.
  11. Wish the cashier a "great day!"
  12. Let someone cut in front of you without allowing your blood pressure to rise - consider it a gift to them.
  13. Tell your boss how much you appreciate them.
  14. Make a homemade dish and double the recipe.  Share half of it with someone you know is struggling financially.
  15. Invite someone to your local coffee shop for a "catch-up chat".  And pay for them!
  16. Show up at a good friend's office and bring them a flower, a cup of coffee, their favorite tea, their favorite candy, or just a coupon you found that you know they would like. Or just give them a hug to let them know you were thinking of them.

What kind of ideas do you have that can brighten and encourage someone's day with little or no cost involved?

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