Differences

Little things pique my interest. In fact, most women or artists are probably the same way. We get teased for over-thinking, or making too big a deal about things, but this is how we were fashioned: to notice and draw out the small, significant things in life.  And these same people who tease are the ones who find comfort in those little details when they hit a rock wall.  But lest I neglect the value that these opposite personalities offer, let me note that they, too, carry a very important part of God's character within them: they are often the producers, the directors, the adventurous ones who take on the world. And we need them.

Notice that without the two, we would have a very unbalanced world.... more-so than it already is!  Each compliments the other, and neither paint an entire picture alone.  

Great leadership recognizes that they need this balance in their activities and decision making process. You may not like that I am so detail-oriented....... until it comes to your taxes and you are hoping to find one more deduction.  Conversely, you may not like that I am prone to responding sincerely.... until you are in a breakup and you need an honest  friend to give you the company and encouragement that is not fleeting.

Try to be aware of those around you today that are different from you. What do their personalities have to offer you that will make you a better person? In return, how can you graciously offer your "differences" to help them with some situation?  It is difficult for some, but as you practice, you will get better at complimenting people around you.  You may also find that you get less "annoyed" with them...


You will find, in time, that your conscious effort helps you in many more than just that one social or professional setting. Aside from that, you may make the friend if a lifetime, just because you were mindful of them despite their differences. 

Remember one thing: you are where you are for a reason. If God didn't want you there, or need you there, He would move you. So find out how you can compliment those around you and do so.  Take advantage of this opportunity before it's gone forever.




Lord, remind me of how brief my time on earth will be.  Remind me that my days are numbered [by You!!] - how fleeting my life is.  Psalm 39:4